Bird, Flying

by Elizabeth Galik 12. April 2011 09:04

One of the best parts of my work at the Centers is receiving the "bad" kids--I mean, kids who have made poor choices--and are sent on timeout from after-school programs at Humboldt Park.  I love those kids.  Last week, just a few moments into our afternoon, I was visited by a roomful of three middle schoolers, all refusing to write their Parts of Speech poems.  Asked to write a poem about their block that began with an adjective, all three middle schoolers responded with the enthusiasm of a speed bump.  Pencils never touched paper.

"Ok, it's your choice," I said, taking out the Discipline Policy papers.  "Write the poem and get a timeout for disrespect, or take a week off for refusing to follow directions."  This choice pushed seventh-grade Adonis* over the edge.  He was on his feet instantly.

"All these women here telling me what to do!" he shouted, eyes filling with tears.  "Ya'll can't just leave me alone!  I'm just trying to come in here and stay safe because my block is bloody and there's people being killed all over the place and I'm not writing about that!"

Other kids sent out.  Office door closed.  Adonis understood.  Peace restored.

Adonis wrote a new poem on the stipulation that it still not be read out loud.  His poem read, "Bird, flying."

"Is 'flying' an adjective or a verb?"

Oh, dear ones, we at Centers also do not want to write about Block, Bloody.  We want to write about Kids, Flying.  Families, Restored.  Communities, Beautiful.  The amazing fact that Adonis stands  in my office instead on the streets proves that they can do it; even now, in small ways, they are flying.

Join us.  We pray for no less than miracles, transformations, and restorations only God can bring about.  In the practical side of that, we also offer the opportunity to join us--to give.  On April 17th, New Life Community Church is collecting an offering for New Life Centers, and all funds collected that day will be matched dollar-for-dollar up to $20,000 total.  On April 17th, join us in believing the blood can stop and our kids can fly.  Give online April 17th at nlcenters.org.

God's greatest blessings to you and yours.

*Name and photo changed to protect the one who didn't want his poem read aloud.

Urban Life Skills Updates!

by Matt DeMateo 23. March 2011 09:40

Things are going well for Urban Life Skills!  As the warm weather starts up, we begin our busy season!  Thanks for your continued support and prayers.  We couldn't do this work without you!  Here are some things that God has been doing among us.

  • Friday Night Group - We have changed our Friday night group layout and the youth are more engaged and the discussions are going deeper!  
  • New Curriculum - We are in the process of compiling and putting into print our new curriculum.  As we teach it, we are laying out lesson plans so we can have others teach each lesson!
  • CPS - Culture of Calm grant is going strong as we continue to mentor 40 youth in Farragut high school!
  • Chicago Adventure Therapy - We have just planned out a variety of events for the spring/summer including a camping trip, rock climbing, biking, kayaking, and more!
  • Substance Abuse Training - Art and Epi are currently in California being trained on a new substance abuse curriculum (http://www.matrixinstitute.org/training/training.html) - going to take our group to the next level!
  • New Reentry Grant and New Staff! Today we began a new program through the governor's office working with juvenile offenders on parole.  We have hired Amy Williams as the program coordinator, Jay Estrada as our full time outreach worker, and Wes Kennedy as our Part Time outreach worker.
  • New Theater System - This weekend we are installing a state of the art theater system in the youth room with a 9 foot screen, HD projector, and surround sound.  We will use this for Friday groups, movie nights, and more!
  • Friday Night Football League - We will be beginning a Friday night flag football league in April.  There will be 8 teams and the league will be from 10 PM to 2 AM at the YMCA at 26th and Western.
  • Arcadia 2011 - On April 16th we will be having our 3rd Arcadia videogame tournament.  This will kickoff the spring season.  We will have 200+ youth out for a day of games, pizza, and outreach!
  • Gym Project - In two weeks we are going to be launching our fund-raising efforts for our new multi-purpose gym space.  The goal is to have a fully functional gym by September 1!  This will include basketball hoops, volleyball net, and more...possibly even a climbing wall!

There's a lot going on!  Thanks for your hard work and continued support.  Remember that God is moving and we must continue to pray for our youth and their families.  There were 4 shootings in the neighborhood last week alone...keep on going and keep on praying. 

Matt DeMateo

Couples Conference - March 11 & 12

by Events 3. March 2011 20:20

Take Your Soul To Work - April 28 & 30

by Events 3. March 2011 19:14

Taking Your Soul to Work
Thursday, April 28, 6:30pm-9:00pm and Saturday, April 30, 8:30a.m.– 3:00pm
2-day workshop

Hosted at New Life Lakeview, 2958 N. Damen Avenue

Maybe you’ve felt like your work life doesn’t really matter to God—that God sees yourwork as some sort of “necessary evil”. Maybe you’ve failed to fully engage yourwork as a Christ-follower but you’d like to learn what that looks like. 

Taking Your Soul to Work, led by Dr. R Paul Stevens and Dr. Gwen Dewey, will equip you with a new vision for the 40-60 hours you invest in your job each week. Rooted in biblical Christian teaching, they will help you grasp God’s view of your work life and how you can approach your marketplace career as a profound expression of your faith. 

This is not a seminar on how to do evangelism in the workplace—it is learning experience that will help you see your work life—the job you have right now—as a calling from God.  

Download the brochure HERE or click this like to register:

http://takingyoursoultowork.rsvpbook.com

 

Men's Encounter Retreat, March 25-26, 2011

by Events 28. February 2011 11:30

Many men struggle with issues in their past that stifle their personality, keep them defeated and rob their influence.  At this Encounter Retreat, we will deal with how to break free from the grip of the past and regain the influence you have been called to have as a man of God.

The Purpose of the Encounter Retreat:

  1. To identify & destroy the destructive landing strips that have been created in your life since childhood.
  2. To help restore the true personality that God has given you.
  3. To initiate healing in broken relationships.
  4. To help you be free to accomplish the purposes God has placed within you. 

Hilton Hotel
2855 North Milwaukee Ave, Northbrook, IL 60062
 
March 25 & 26th 2011
Friday opening: 7pm / Check in: 4pm
Saturday closing: 4pm / Check out: Noon
 
Early bird cost: $60 until March 18th

Regular cost on March 19 & 20: $65 

SIGN UP ONLINE!  CLICK HERE TO REGISTER ONLINE!

For more information, contact Mike Berry at mikeb@newlifechicago.org 

 

 

Chick-Fil-A Leadercast: 5.6.2011

by Events 25. February 2011 20:35

Join us for a dynamic presentation on leadership. Your voice is a voice of change, and change creates new possibilities. Identify and develop your own leadership voice at the can't-miss leadership development event broadcast LIVE from Atlanta to hundrers of venues across the country and around the world. It's affordable. It's for every leader at every level who aspire to articulte and demonstrate the power of change through positive leadership 

Friday, May 6, 2011
NEW LIFE - Portage Park 
at Luther High School North
5700 W. Berteau Ave.
Chicago, IL 60634
 
Registration:  7am
Conference:  8am-3:30pm 

If you have any questions, please contact Ignace Mba: 312.203.5855 and 773.413.9296; naciom9@yahoo.com

Registration is open from now until May 2nd.   

 CLICK HERE to register! 

Here's the pricing breakdown:

  • Reg Price: $69, 02/21 - 02/28
  • Reg Price: $79, 03/01 - 03/25
  • Reg Price: $89, 03/26 - 04/22
  • Reg Price: $99, 04/23 - 05/02

 

New Lifers Special Discount Ends 04/22 (see your office administrator for promo code)
  • New Lifers Price: $44, 02/21 - 02/28
  • New Lifers Price: $54, 03/01 - 03/25
  • New Lifers Price: $74, 03/26 - 04/22
Non-Profits and Students Special Discount Ends 04/22 (call 312-203-5855 for promo code)

 

  • NPS Price: $54, 02/21 - 02/28
  • NPS Price: $64, 03/01 - 03/25
  • NPS Price: $74, 03/26 - 04/22

 

 

Women's Encounter Retreat - Feb 25-26, 2011

by Events 22. January 2011 10:45

Many women struggle with issues in their past that stifle their personality, keep them defeated and rob their influence.  At this Encounter Retreat, we will deal with how to break free from the grip of the past and regain the influence you have been called to have as a woman of God.

The Purpose of the Encounter Retreat:

  1. To identify & destroy the destructive landing strips that have been created in your life since childhood.
  2. To help restore the true personality that God has given you.
  3. To initiate healing in broken relationships.
  4. To help you be free to accomplish the purposes God has placed within you.
Embassy Suites in Schaumburg
1939 North Meacham Road
 
February 25 & 26th 2011
Friday opening: 7pm / Check in: 4pm
Saturday closing: 4pm / Check out: Noon
 
Early bird cost: $70 Month of January
SIGN UP ONLINE! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
Regular cost: $80- Feb 6, 13, 20
 
Cost includes:
  • Suite* Features: Double beds (or king) with pull out in separate living room
  • Kitchen with a microwave, refrigerator, 2 telephones, TV, iron, hairdryer
  • Made-to-order breakfast
  • Materials, coffee, snacks
 *4 ladies to a room. Please choose your roommates. If you do not have someone, we will provide them for you.

 

 

Essentials Small Group Leader Training

by Small Groups 4. January 2011 14:18

ESSENTIALS: things you cannot live without. 
Air. Food. Water. Clothes. Shelter. Bible. Coffee. 
You know--the things that sustain your everyday life.
For a small group leader, what are the Essentials?
 
Join with all small group leaders, assistants, new recruits, and hosts from every New Life location as we refresh the Essentials of small group leadership.  We're going to renew our vision for the disciple-shaping power of small group life.

Saturday, January 22, 2011
8:30a-12:30a
@New Life Midway
4101 West 51st Street

On-line & Pre-registration has ended.  Register at the door when you arrive for the conference.

  

Planning for a Fast

by Kevin Bruursema 20. December 2010 05:16

I've talked about it before but its illustrated powerfully when you are preparing to fast--you are at your best when you function within a spiritual squad.  Our pastoral team (my key squad) has been in conversation over email sharing our various fasting plans for the 25 day fast we began yesterday.  This conversation has done several things for me:

  1. Hearing about other pastors' specific fasting plans caused me to create my own plan.  I've learned thatwhat is left unsaid prior to a fast becomes a point for easy compromise during a fast.  A fasting plan keeps me from wiggling out of my commitments, indulging or unnecessarily struggling.  Its particularly helpful after I've shared my plans with others.
  2. Knowing that others are fasting in the same way right along with me gives me an invisible sense of camaraderie.  I'm not alone.  That renews my sense of purpose because I'm in it together with brothers.
  3. Practical helps like Dwayne's phrase, "water is a faster's best friend", remind me how to stay on track in practical things during the fast.  And it reduces the number of headaches I experience.

Our conversation really began by me simply asking, "hey, is anyone fasting the entire 25 days?"  From there most of the team shared how they are participating in the fast.  Don't be afraid to ask people in your squad about their fast.  A corporate fast is done together (duh) so you're not being unspiritual by sharing how you're fasting.

Haven't started fasting yet?  Start by making a plan.  Answer these questions as specifically as possible:

  • How long will you fast?  
    • Example:  "sundown, February 26 to sundown, February 29"
  • What will you fast from?  
    • Example:  "only 3 glasses/bottles of juice per day, no coffee, as much tea as desired, one cup of clear broth per day, no web-surfing, no television."
  • What will you add to your spiritual practices during the fast?  
    • As my daughter Lena said yesterday, " a fast is not just stopping eating--it means praying when you would be eating."
    • Example:  30 minutes of worship and prayer for breakfast lunch and dinner, meditate on the book of Ephesians for the duration of the fast.
  • Why are you fasting?
    • Now its not enough to answer this with, "because my church said to do it."  That's a good start but having personal spiritual goals during your fast will give your fast prayer purposes that bind it together and that allow you to praise God for what He does after your fast is complete.
    • Example:  "hear God more clearly, break out of spiritual dryness, receive direction on an important decision."

I'll give one more piece of advice--read a good fasting book before and during your fast.  It will motivate and inspire you.  I recommend Jentezen Franklin's book Fasting.  May your fast be fruitful.

Urban Life Skills Christmas Party

by Urban Life Skills 1. December 2010 09:40