Happy New Year!

by Al Garcia 31. December 2009 10:17
Happy New Year.. New Life Oak Forest Family,
 
As another year draws to a close I just wanted to share how grateful I am for all of you. I'm looking forward to an exciting year of seeing God move in some awesome ways.
 
Currently we are in a teaching series entitled The Road Back-A Recovery JourneyMany people have gone down the wrong road in life only to see their life crash.  You or someone you care about may be in this situation.  I want to encourage you to attend New Life Oak Forest and experience how God will work in your life through this series.
 
Starting on January 24th we will begin a new series entitled God Provides.  This is a message that all people must hear.  God does provide and He wants to provide our every need.  In these challenging economic times it may be tempting to doubt that God will provide.  Join us as we drop in on the lives of several people to see how God provided supernaturally in their lives.  Be looking for special invite tickets in the Sunday bulletins so that you can invite your friends and family to God Provides.
 
During the month of January we will be having a special emphasis on prayer and fasting.  I want to invite as many of you who can make it to a special time of prayer with me and the New Life Oak Forest leadership team on January 17th from 5p-6p at New Life Oak Forest, 5333 W. 151st.
 
The beginning of a New Year is a great time to reflect on your life and to set some goals for the New Year.  To help you set goals I want to share with you a coaching tool I use to help gain insight on how a person is living their life. It's called the Wheel of Life.  You can download it by clicking here.   The instructions are included with it.
 
Lastly, I want to encourage all of us to read our Bibles daily.  The last several years I have used the One Year Bible to help me stay on track.  This year I will be reading through the One Year Chronological version of the Bible.  It's fun and easy to do it this way.  I encouage everyone to give it a try.
 
God, I pray for the people of New Life. That we will have a year that is devoted and focused on You.  You, are the author and finisher of our faith.  We declare your lordship in our lives. I pray that you will provide our every need and even grant us the desires of our hearts. I pray that many lives will turn to you and that you will grow our church inside and out.  We love you. We praise you. We exalt you. We know that God Provides.  In the blessed name of Jesus, we pray.
 
In Christ
 
Pastor AL

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The Church Was Trashed Today

by Al Garcia 4. October 2009 11:57
I walked into church today and it had been trashed.  Garbage everywhere even on the altar.  Were we the victim of insensitvie vandals?
 
No, today was the kickoff to a brand new series we are doing at New Life Community Church entitled, "Out of Control". So our creative department got really creative.
Just goes to show you how easily things can get out of control in our spiritual lives as well. Yes, we are free in Christ. 
 
Nevertheless our freedom carries with it a huge responsibility.
 
- PAL

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He was recently hired!

by Al Garcia 16. September 2009 19:32
Hello Career Explorers,
 
If you are unemployed, underemployed, or misemployed, why not attend this weeks Career Crossroads Support and Resource Group?  Check out what one of our graduates had to say about the group:
Pastor Al,
"Thanks for your insight and knowledge of how to customize our resumes for each job opening. I was so much more prepared when I was in the interviewing stage of my job search. I always prayed before every application I applied for and before I was interviewed. This helped me spiritually be prepared for each interviewers question and calm my anxiety. This career group has helped me network with others that I could help with some leads for their special gifts. I have been blessed by God in the job he has given me to fit my needs and job skills. I pray and thank God every morning and night for his timing not mine. He is in control of all that happens for us. Thanks for being Gods servant to his people. Your time and effort is very well appreciated and revered from all whom attend your career classes.
God Bless you and your staff," - Richard Gray  
Crossroads Career and Resource Group
Wednesday, 9am-11am
New Life Oak Forest (Lower Level)
5333 W. 151st
Oak Forest, IL. 60452

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Have you given up on your Job Search?

by Al Garcia 7. September 2009 17:09
Well don't!
 
There's a saying that says,"even a blind squirrel will find an acorn someday"
 
The Bible says, that we are to ask and we will receive an answer, we are to seek and we will find, we are to knock and the door will be opened for us.
If you haven't found a job yet, don't get discouraged.  Get proactive and attend this weeks Career Explorer Support Group Meeting at New Life Oak Forest, 5333 W. 151st Wednesday from 9am-11am.
 
Take a look at what one of our participants had to say,
"Pastor Al,
Thanks for the message and support.  I was fortunate to get a job about 2mths ago and am happy with it.  I know it is tough out there as I was unemployed for 5 mths. If I can offer anything to your agenda and program, I can say this.  You offer great support and a great program.  The most important thing I picked up from you was to keep networking and I signed up on Linkedin based on your recommendation.  The net is fine for keeping your name out there via resumes (I did get a few interviews from sites like CareerBuilder and Monster,) but networking in groups like yours and other contacts seem to be the best way to go, at least it was in my case, but most importantly you have to keep the faith in yourself and God.  It's easy to get down in a situation , but things happen for reasons and I'll continue to pray for you and those you are working so hard to help. Keep up your good work.  Your help is greatly appreciated.
 
Tom Borbely "
 
So you see, opportunities are out there you just need to know how and where to look.  Attend the group this week!
 
Now for those of you who are working already, I have also come up with a service for companies and organizations.  I have produced several seminars that can help your company and or organization but you need to be the one to introduce it. If you think your company can benefit from the following presentations let me know.
 
Here is a listing of the different seminars I can do:
  • Establishing a 360 Degree assessment
  • Change Management
  • Implementing an Audit Program
  • Benchmarking
  • Complaint Handling
  • Leading the way for Change
  • Performance Appraisal Systems
  • Problem Solving
  • Project Management
  • Relationship Management Systems
I'm currently working on several others but they are not fully developed yet.  They are:
  • Facilitation Skills
  • Introduction to Strategy
  • Conflict Management
  • Leadership and Delegation
  • Dealing with Employee Absenteeism
  • Job Analysis
 
Sincerely,
 
Pastor AL Garcia
Certified Career and Leadership Management Coach
 

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All Church - Single's Monopoly Tournament!

by New Life Oak Forest 14. August 2009 15:33

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Powerful Life Changing Picnic!

by Al Garcia 22. July 2009 05:39
Hello Everyone,

I wanted to thank everyone who worked so hard to make the picnic a success. It really was. I think it was our best one so far.  Besides the face painting, food, and overall fun, this was indeed a life changing event for many people.

Reconciliation Wedding:  Adela and Paul Alvarado had been divorced. Within the last couple of years , even though they were divorced, they started coming to New Life Oak Forest. During that time they both surrendered their lives to Christ. They got mentored and joined small groups. God continued to work on them and they realized that they still loved each other and wanted to be together. What you witnessed at the picnic was a reconcilation wedding. Paul and Adela got remarried to one another and then followed that up by being baptized.

Baptisms: I asked each one of you to bring a gallon of water to fill the baptistry and we did it. Over all we baptized 9 people at the picnic.  Each one of the baptisms represents a life that has been changed by the power of God.
Please keep the following recently baptized people in your prayers; Paul,Adela,Mario, Crystal, Carol, Lori, Jill, Scott, and Dana.

Salvations: To top it all off we had two people surrender their lives to Jesus during the service at the picnic.

In case you haven't realized it, God is up to something at New Life Oak Forest.  And we get to be part of it!


He is Awesome!


Pastor AL

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Garage Sale was a Success!!!

by New Life Oak Forest 11. June 2009 06:58

SHIFT - the 20's group at New Life Oak Forest - would like to thank all who supported our Relay for Life garage sale!  Because of your donations we were able to raise almost $700 for the American Cancer Society's Relay for Life!

Thank you so much

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The Weight of Time

by Bobby Moss 29. May 2009 21:06
Both my grandparents and aunt & uncle own next door trailers on a small fishing lake, near Terre Haute, Ind. My mom & stepdad bought my grandparents trailer last fall, so we all decided to go down there over Memorial Day weekend. Though we've been eating fish out of that lake for almost 20 years, this was the first time in probably over 5 years that almost all our family has been down there at the same time: parents, siblings, aunt & uncle, cousins - just not our grandparents or one other cousin this time.

Caught almost a dozen fish over the weekend, most keepers, and I'll go ahead and brag - a bass that was the biggest caught over the weekend. Baylee and I went on her first boat ride and she helped me fish some. She fearlessly held both a worm and a fish. We all stayed up around the fire till past midnight talking & laughing, and also partook in the family tradition of playing Phase 10.

Tuesday before we left I was on the dock with Baylee for a last time. While basking in how much fun the weekend had been and also reminicing of other times standing on the same dock, a real weight came on me: the weight of time. I didn't realize how heavy something could be that you can't hold in your hand.

The weight of the past. All of my memories of the trailer are positive and special, and they bring me immense joy thinking about them. But what was heavy to me is what is obvious: I can't relive many of them. Sure I can still fish down there again...but never again with my grandpa. I dropped my glasses in the lake this past weekend...but it wasn't the same hilarious family experience as when my grandpa did it years ago. It's the same when you're remembering life after you see high school, college, or old church friends on Facebook. How many times in our lives have we been in a moment with friends or family and thought, "I hope this moment never ends." Yeah, they all did. You just can't TIVO the past, rewind & relive...and knowing that to be true doesn't mean it doesn't suck any less.

The weight of the future. Driving home up 41, sharing with Jeannette about being on the dock with Baylee, we started talking about the future as well. We'll be 50 when Baylee is 18, 60 when she's 28. I want more time with her than that! Only God knows if we'll even have that much time with her. It's a pretty heavy thought to wonder if someday you'll get to hold your 2 year old's 2 year old.

All this heaviness wasn't/shouldn't be about saddness, for me it was about necessary clarity.

I've been waking up earlier these last couple days to get to my work and get it done, so I can be home a little earlier. A two year old who doesn't want to go to bed hasn't been that big of a deal. Still frustrating, but a frustration that I know I need to cherish.

Like pressure on coal to make a diamond, the weight of the past & future give the necesary focus needed for the present.

From a drive I had late at night last week, the below Chris Rice song has been stuck in my head. Didn't know I'd be grasping it's message over Memorial Day weekend, as it pretty much encompasses what hit me on the dock standing there with Baylee:

Life Means So Much:
Everyday is a journal page
Every man holds a quill and ink
And there’s plenty of room for writing in
All we do and believe and think
So will you compose a curse
Or will today bring the blessings
Fill the page with rhyming verse
Or some random sketchings

Teach us to count the days
Teach us to make the days count
Lead us in better ways
Somehow our souls forgot
Life means so much
Life means so much
Life means so much

Everyday is a bank account
And time is our currency
So no one’s rich, nobody’s poor
We get twenty-four hours each
So how are you gonna spend
Will you invest or squander
Try to get ahead
Or help someone who’s under

Has anybody lived who knew the value of a life?
And don’t you think giving his own
Would prove the worth of yours and mine?

Teach us to count the days
Teach us to make the days count
Lead us in better ways
Somehow our souls forgot
Life means so much
Life means so much
Life means so much

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How to read a lot of books

by Bobby Moss 9. May 2009 17:17
A question I get periodically was asked again last night, "How do you read so many books?" The simplest explanation is that I love to read, it's one of my favorite things to do. Beyond that though, here's some practical things that might help someone read more:

- Pick books you'll enjoy.
What might seem like a "duh" is actually a big reason why, I think, people don't enjoy reading: the books they've read aren't enjoyable to them. Maybe your high school teacher wouldn't let up on Shakespeare and you just abhorred it, so you have this nervous twitch that kicks in whenever you see any book because you're afraid of "to be or not to be." Reading isn't supposed to feel like a homework assignment, it's something that's meant to be enjoyed. Leave the wounds from your high school English teacher in the past and find a book YOU want to read because YOU'RE choosing to read it.

- Think correctly about reading. Reading is not a mere leisure activity. For some reading is actually part of their work's training/development. Obviously you shouldn't read for the whole day, and equally important, you should have your boss' approval. But to take a short block of time each day or a couple times a week should actually be expected and shouldn't bring a false sense of guilt that you are wasting time. It's called sharpening your skills. If you're in ministry, read books about ministry; if you're a teacher, read books about teaching; and so on.

- Make time for it. If you want to read more then you have to establish some type of rhythm in your week for when you are going to read. If I'm not having lunch with anyone then I read while I'm eating, I also read later at night when the rest of the family goes to bed. For you it might be cutting out a TV show, early in the morning, or an hour at a coffeeshop in the evening. But if it takes time to read then you have to make the time.

- Carry a book with you all the time. How often do you wait in line? How often do you wait period? I hate wasting time, and awhile back I figured out that it was my choice whether waiting time became wasted time. I started carrying a paperback around with me wherever I went. A few pages can be read while waiting in line at the grocery story and probably a whole chapter sitting in the doctor's office. If you ride the train a lot in Chicago then you're being handed blocks of time to read - so why not have a book with you? Don't waste time staring at walls or the back of peoples' heads when you could get through some pages.

- Listen to Audio books.
How often you wait in line is one thing, but think about how much time you spend in the car, especially if you commute. To not get stressed out in gridlock I began listening to unabridged audiobooks. Unabridged means that someone is reading a novel word for word as it is in the hardcopy of the book. If I'm alone in the car I have an audiobook on, and I probably listen to two a month on average. A lot of libraries have unabridged books on CD that you can check out. I get mine through a subscription to audbile.com.

- Read a variety of things. Read fiction and read non-fiction, read older authors and read newer authors, read authors whose ideas you agree with and also those whose you don't. Book options shouldn't be treated like the same old menu item you resort to - books are like a buffet: the options change all the time and you can take whatever you want. I'm going to blog about this another time, but I don't think it's beneficial to only read one particular type of book. Balance is the key. At any given time I have a non-fiction book (normally what I read during the day) and a fiction book (read at night) that I'm reading (plus my audio book).

- Connect and discuss with others. When you run into someone who is or has read the same book you've read it can bring about an amazing conversation. Shared observations, insights, and meaninful reflections make it more than just a a good book you've read - it becomes a deeper connection with another person. Plus, if you are stuck as to what to read the best place to start is to ask someone what good books they've read. Just seeing them on the shelf I probably would have never read any books by Orson Scott Card. But, a friend of mine who knows I like fantasy highly recommended him to me and explained why he liked his books so much. Since that conversation a few years ago I've probably read over 15 books by Card and he's now one of my favorite authors.

Other than the above, the only other really big thing I could say is that you need to make reading your own thing. Don't compare your reading preferences and speed to others. I read on average 50 books a year and from a wide variety of topics and authors. I know of some people who read more than me and some who read less. Regardless, none of that should matter to you. If you only read 1 book a month that is AWESOME! Connect with others because of books, but don't think you have to become others. Just read, and enjoy it.

So go buy a good book and find some time to enjoy it. If you need ideas, the books I'm reading, have recently read, and my favorites are on the left side of the blog a little ways down.

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Do you live in a Step or Blended Family?

by Al Garcia 27. April 2009 05:06
Grace and I just completed 36 hours of course work on Step Family Coaching/Counseling. We have satisfied the certification requirements of the Step Family Foundation in New York.  We are excited about returning to Chicago and working with the many families who are in step/blended situations and are dealing with the unique pressures and challenges of this family dynamic.
 
Researchers tell us that by 2010 the Step Family will be the predominant family system in America.  Unfortunately 3 out of 4 blended family relationships fail. Unless there is intervention this trend will continue and become worse.  Grace and I believe that the church should be a beacon of hope for all families. Jesus is the answer and the provider. We believe that He has provided the help that so many families need today.
 
If you belong to a blended family, you are not defective. You are not second class. You are not damaged goods. You are loved by God through Jesus and He has a plan to bring healing to you and your entire family.  Please pray for me and Grace as we minister to the families of our community. 
 
~ Pastor AL

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