Second Place Stinks

by Mike Berry 16. February 2009 06:22
      Just got back from our 7th grade daughter’s basketball game. Her team has had a great year and they finished the season by entering a difficult tournament in Wheaton. The schools in this tournament are mostly larger and wealthier. Even our coaches admitted that we were underdogs. However, after a 28 point win on Friday night over Batavia we held on for a 1-point victory against East Dundee on Saturday to make it to the championship game against a tough Mount Prospect team. Our team was smaller in size and in number (only 7 girls on our side). In the first minute one of our starters went down with a sprained ankle. Our team played tough and was down by 1 point early in the 4th quarter but the other side made great shots and pulled away for a 12 point victory. Our team ended the year with a tremendous 29-3 record. But this game made me real upset. Second place stinks!

      I know I shouldn’t care too much about who wins, it’s only a game, it’s more important for the girls to have good attitudes, there is no money or scholarships for the winners, etc. but for some reason I am very competitive and absolutely want to see us win. If this desire is unchecked it can lead to pride, anger, and idolatry. I’m convinced that some sports fans need to repent of wrong worship. But I think there’s something deeper, something good, natural, and from God, that makes me (and the other parents) crave victory.

      The Lord has made us to be winners. In scripture we hear Jesus say “I have overcome the world” (John 16:33), and read about being “more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Rom 8:37), “the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1Cor 15:57), “the victory that has overcome the world” (1John 5:4), and on and on. Life is a competition!

      Paul used a sports illustration in 1Cor 9:24 when he said, “Do you not know that in a race all the runners, run but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.” He doesn’t say, ‘just have a good attitude’, ‘try hard’, or ‘be a nice person’. He says WIN! But notice who we are competing against. “No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.” (1Cor 9:27)

      The enemy is me! I am competing against myself. No one else can make me sin, cause me to turn to the world, or disqualify me. The Devil and the World can only appeal to my sinful nature for entry. The battle in my life is Mike (Holy Spirit side) versus Mike (Sinful side). The results of this competition will make a difference forever. Victory will bless my family, lead others to Christ, glorify God, and enable me to enter eternity with confidence and no shame (1John 2:28). Defeat will rob me of all kinds of blessings and bring curses down upon me.

      Fill in the blanks with your own name. The competition is between __________ (Holy Spirit side) and _________ (Flesh side). Jesus told his disciples that “The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.” (Matthew 26:41) Who will win in your life? Remember that SECOND PLACE STINKS!

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